I had the pleasure of attending a Modern Jewish Bridal Shower over the weekend.  It got me to thinking if I were planning my own Modern Jewish Wedding now (a scant four years later) what would I do differently? It’s tough to think of regrets on what is your “most special day.”  But, alas, you will have a few of those, “If I could do it differently,” moments.  Here are mine…   What would you…